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Monday Meditation: Portraits of a king, Part One: The choice
All of us know the problem with a wrong choice. And every caregiver is beset with the challenges of making many choices. Maybe that’s why we resonate with the story of Samuel’s difficult task to choose the future king.
It’s a question for every caregiver, but the answer isn’t easy
How is this moment preparing me for the opportunities to come? What will they be, and will I be ready? While dealing with today, I do well to think about tomorrow.
Learning to trust, Part 4: A man of action, a spirit of submission
Which part of Nehemiah’s pattern would you do well to imitate first?
Questions after a week with Covid: one disease, two experiences
I can tell you exactly what it meant for me to have Covid. Evelyn suffered, too, but we could only guess at how she felt.
Learning to Trust, Part 3: He obeyed God and wasn’t happy about it
In Jonah’s words of distress from the pit of his suffering, we can find help for our own prayers today.
‘Thanks to dementia’ their stories encourage me to tell my own
“Writing is an act of ego.” I’ll agree. But as readers write in response to these posts, I see how writing can be about so much more than the writer.
Learning to Trust, Part 2: When we’ve reached the end of our limits
Elijah had given his all, but still his problems kept coming. It was a situation different from—but also similar to—what caregivers sometimes face.
Facing up to ‘never’ with a task I would not have anticipated
Finally! I have quit talking about a task I was dreading. I’m struck by how I never anticipated I would do this.
Learning to Trust, Part 1: Choose Solomon’s prayer first and most
Most caregivers sooner or later will admit something close to what Solomon said to God: “I don’t know whether I’m coming or going.” All caregivers do well to repeat what Solomon sought from God next.
Sunday was my birthday number 75 (gulp!). I can hardly even admit it
Rather than deny my advance (or is it slide?) toward 80, I’ve decided to pause and take stock of what I’m learning about life from this crossroads.
The Man, The Mystery, The Meaning, Part 5: He wished them peace
We can imagine the words meant more to the disciples that day than ever before. They had likely never felt less at peace.
‘You’re handling this pretty well,’ he said. I think he’s right
The support group leader doesn’t seem too concerned about me. I’m not, either!
The Man, the Mystery, the Meaning, Part 4: He heard their story
He walked and talked with them, but they couldn’t grasp the reality in their midst.
Questions about a task that should be simple—but somehow isn’t
Can I chalk up my delay to everyday procrastination? Maybe.
The Man, the Mystery, the Meaning, Part 3: He bore their taunts
They did not know he was the Son of God. They had no idea that the death they inflicted was all a part of God’s plan from the beginning.
Marking the one-year anniversary of Evelyn’s move to memory care
I’ve sometimes been surprised by what we’re experiencing and what I’m learning. But the bottom line is a good report.
The Man, the Mystery, the Meaning, Part 2: He prayed all alone
How often have we been sleeping while God was at work right beside us?
Another first for me: two weeks away to the other side of the world
Even if your spouse is living in a memory care center, you might consider the opportunity to travel to the other side of the world. I’m glad I did.
The Man, the Mystery, the Meaning, Part 1: He washed their feet
They were as shocked to see his humble service as we may be by the necessity to do something similar.
The questions I tried to answer, and the one that left me speechless
Benevolent lies are stock-in-trade for Alzheimer’s caregivers. But I couldn’t think of any way to respond to a question that struck at the core of what she’s facing.